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誰の話を聞くかが重要

 

人生で一番大切な事は「誰の話を聞くか」という事です。たいていの周囲の大人は、ドリームキラーだったりします。先生でさえもそうです。なぜなら「過去のあなたの実績」で話をしているからです。随風さんのいた高校でもし、進路指導で国立大学行きたいという生徒がいたら、多くの先生が「それは無理だ」と言います。なぜならばその高校は何年に一人、国立に行くか行かないかの生徒が出るからです。実は随風さんも教員の時、ドリームキラーだったなーと反省をしております。そして、人は判断基準として、周囲の大人たちの状況を想定し、自分もこんなもんだろうと思っているという事です。

しかし、その状況からコンフォートゾーンを変えていって、成功者になる事ができます。その手段として苫米地英人さんは4つの段階で示しています。

第一段階「あきらめ」

「無理だ」「できるわけがない」を言わない

第二段階「目的論的」

「○○するべきだ」「○○であったらいいなー」

第三段階「誓い」

「もうこんな事はやめよう」「もうこんな状態から抜け出そう」

第四段階「新しいイメージについてのセルフ・トーク」

「次はこうする」「明日はこうありたい」

つまり価値ある欲望が大きな力の原動力になるという事なのですね。

中野「栄楽」のつけめん

いつも行列になっていて入れないです。

早い時間なので、チャンスと思って入れました。

とってもおいしいです。

 

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